Wednesday, February 14, 2024

Contemplate Divine Mercy this Lent

 


Lent is the perfect time to reflect on the gift and message of Divine Mercy. Fr. Chris Alar is a member of the Marian Fathers of the Immaculate Conception, an order of priests who have made it one of their missions to spread the good news of Divine Mercy. In Understanding Divine Mercy, Fr. Alar explains the visions of Jesus that St. Faustina wrote about in her famous diary, Divine Mercy in My Soul, showing how the Divine Mercy message permeates Scripture and Catholic tradition. He also provides ways we can live and share that message in our own lives.

We are all sinners in need of God’s mercy. “Every time we sin, we bring disharmony into God’s universe” (8). This disharmony impacts not only our lives, but the world at large, contributing to wars and natural disasters. Contemplating that reality is enough to make a person feel hopeless, but in spite of the sad state of the world, there is hope. “God knows we are suffering as a result of our sins, and He wants to help. . . . God loves us, and He wants to forgive and heal us. He wants to have mercy on us” (9). God sent His Son to redeem us and the Holy Spirit to sanctify us.

Fr. Alar describes the blessings of the sacrifice of the Mass and the Sacrament of Reconciliation. He also offers simple ways to remember the key tenets of the Divine Mercy message and the five “channels of grace” to help us live out this message. The acronyms “ASK” and “FINCH” are easy to recall, and each of these components is then explained in detail.

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A – Ask for God’s Mercy.

B – Be merciful to others.

C – Completely Trust in God’s Mercy.

 

F – Feast of Divine Mercy

I – Image of Divine Mercy

N – Novena of Divine Mercy

C – Chaplet of Divine Mercy

H – Hour of Divine Mercy

 

Some people struggle to understand or accept that God is loving and merciful because of the suffering in the world (I have experienced doubt because of this). Fr. Alar tackles that problem, explaining how suffering can be a source of blessing when it is offered up for others and we persevere through our difficulties. “The enemy will use our suffering and crosses to try to lead us to despair, but hold fast—we all have to go through these tests . . . we need to ask [God] for the grace to persevere, for the grace to be able to carry our cross with His help” (139-140). Fr. Alar reminds us that “in every storm, Jesus is present” (149).

Fr. Alar also discusses what we can do if we fear for a loved one’s salvation. He emphasizes that is never too late to pray for someone’s soul, even if they died many years ago, because God exists outside of time.

Whether you are familiar with the Divine Mercy message and devotion or this is your first time hearing about it, Understanding Divine Mercy is a book well worth reading and contemplating. 

 

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Wednesday, February 07, 2024

#OpenBook for February 2024

Welcome to #OpenBook. I'm joining up with Carolyn Astfalk who hosts an #OpenBook Linkup on CatholicMom.com. Here's what I've been reading this past month. The dates indicate when I finished the books. Thanks for stopping by!

 

1-6-24 Sensitive: The Hidden Power of the Highly Sensitive Person in a Loud, Fast, Too-Much World - Jean Granneman & Andre Solo -  I am definitely a sensitive person (I scored 30 out of 32 on the in-book test). I always thought it was simply due to being an introvert, but while there is some overlap, sensitive people can be extroverted or introverted. This book was written for people to "stop seeing sensitivity as a flaw and to start seeing it as a gift." It shows readers how to make the most of their sensitivity and offers tips on how to live and work with others who see the world differently. If you or someone you love falls into this category, I recommend reading this book. I definitely recommend it for parents who struggle to understand their child's sensitivity. If you have ever uttered the words, "Why are you so sensitive?" or "Suck it up, buttercup," this book is for you!


 

1/12/24 Where Hope Begins - Heidi Chiavaroli - This is the second book in a Little Women themed series. This installment focuses on Meg, who is struggling in her marriage and with caring for her stepson who has been diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes. It vividly shows their struggle with this disease. While I cannot speak to the accuracy of the portrayal, the author states she interviewed several people who had experience with Type 1 diabetes before writing it. I definitely learned a lot in reading it. 

1/13/24 Just Once - Karen Kingsbury - I've read many of Kingsbury's books and enjoyed them. This was her first attempt at a World War II era romance and she did a great job telling the story of Irvel Holland who was dating one brother while loving another. After Pearl Harbor, all three are drawn into the war in various capacities, including Irvel's role as a spy which she can tell no one about. Kingsbury skillfully balances the horrors of war with a love story. If you enjoyed The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks, you'll enjoy this book.

1-13-24 The Dictionary People: The Unsung Heroes Who Created the Oxford English Dictionary - Sarah Ogilvie - I was first introduced to the people behind the Oxford English Dictionary in the fictional The Dictionary of Lost Words. Creating the OED was an incredible undertaking. This is a nonfiction book which explores the many volunteers who read books and sent in suggestions of words to include along with the reference where they found it used. Ogilvie divides the volunteers into alphabetical categories from A for Archeologist to Z for Zealots. I only read about half of the book but it was enough to give me a feel for the wide variety of people who left their mark on the OED. 

 

1-16-24 Understanding Divine Mercy - Fr. Chris Alar, MIC - This is a lovely book explaining the Divine Mercy message. Whether you are familiar with the Divine Mercy message and devotion or this is your first time hearing about it, this book is well-worth reading. It would be great to read during Lent.

1-21-24 The Creative Act: A Way of Being - Rick Rubin - This book wins the award for the oddest cover! I'm always interested in books on creativity and I read about this one somewhere and requested it from the library. It had no "About the Author" so I had to look up who Rick Rubin is. It turns out that he is a famous music producer. The book itself was very good with lots to contemplate about living a creative life and dealing with the ups and downs of that reality. It definitely falls into the spiritual but not religious category where there is an amorphous higher power that leads us to create. If you are looking for a book on the gift of creativity from a Catholic spirituality, may I suggest The Work of Our Hands: The Universal Gift of Creativity which I wrote a few years ago (it is only $2.99 on Kindle!). 

1-21-24 The Songbird of Hope Hill - Kim Vogel Sawyer - This was a lovely story of redemption in which a prostitute finds a new life and love at a refuge for former ladies of the evening. (Read for a book review publication.)

 

1-27-24 The Elusive Truth of Lily Temple - Joanna Davidson Politano - This book was different from most books I read. The book description describes it as "a whimsical and layered tale" set in 1903 Edwardian England. It was part fairy-tale, part mystery, part allegory, part romance. It had a lot going on and sometimes I was a bit confused, but it all worked out in the end. Lily Temple is a film actress who constantly reinvents herself, keeping her real identity and her past hidden. Peter Driscoll is an inquiry agent who has been hired to investigate the mystery of a missing gem, which happens to be in Lily's possession. (Read for a book review publication)

1-28-24 Different Kinds of Minds - Temple Grandin - This is a book for teens, especially for those who identify as neurodivergent. It is very similar to her book Visual Thinking, just designed for a slightly younger audience. It helps explains how some brains see the world differently than others and that our school system should adapt to teaching those learners (she offers the example that when she was young there was many more opportunities for hands-on learning such as shop classes and home economics.) She also talks about the ways people with different types of brains can work together to solve problems. 

1-28-24 Turn to the Cross: Daily Prayers for Lent and Holy Week -Josh Noem - This is a Lenten devotional that offers a Scripture passage or quote, a reflection passage, prayers, and reflection question for each day of Lent. It focuses on the Lenten disciplines of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving, and will help deepen your prayer life this Lent. 

1-28-24 Messages of Perseverance for Lent 2024 - Fr. Michael White and Tom Corcoran. This duo has put together a number of these short devotional books for Advent and Lent. It was a bit odd that this one started on the first Sunday of Lent rather than Ash Wednesday. These are very short reflections that, as the title suggests, focus on persevering in prayer and faith even when the road is hard. These are great for a quick spiritual pick-me-up.

1-28-24 Behold Your Mother: Marian Stations of the Cross - Marge Steinhage Fenelon - This book takes a unique approach to the Stations of the Cross. They are told from the first-person perspective of a child watching Mary as she watches her son's suffering and death. The child knows that they have somehow contributed to both Mary and Jesus's suffering and wants to comfort Mary. While written for adults, because of the child's perspective, these could also be used in a family or classroom setting with children.

 

2-1-24 Saint John Bosco: The Juggling Saint - Maria Riley - This is the third in a series of books in which three siblings time travel back to meet important saints (think Magic Tree House books or the Chime Travelers). In this one, young Joshua is scared to start at a new school for second grade. The siblings meet St. John Bosco who helps Joshua know that God will take care of him at school. 

2-3-24 The Bookshop of Yesterdays - Amy Meyerson - I enjoyed this story which was part mystery / part journey of personal discovery. A young woman is bequeathed a bookstore from her estranged uncle. He also leaves her a literary scavenger hunt for her to discover the truth about her past.
2-4-24 The Secret Lives of Introverts - Jenn Granneman - I'm always happy to read a book that celebrates introverts! This one offers concrete suggestions on how to function in the world while respecting our own need to recharge after human interaction. It covers personal relationships in families, dating, friendships, and in the workplace. It also has sections for extroverts to read on how to relate to and care for the introverts in their lives.


Since spring of 2019, I have been making my way through the Great Books Curriculum of Thomas Aquinas College (I'm currently working on the readings for junior year). 

1-6-24 Mathematical Principles of Natural Philosophy -Sir Isaac Newton - This was another book I skimmed due to my limited understanding of the math and science involved. Newton wrote this in 1685-1686. It began with his laws of motion (which I actually recognized)! It goes on to discuss the motion of various bodies, explores the motion of orbits, the way gravity attracts spherical bodies such as planets, the motion of fluids, and the laws that govern motion in the wider universe (space). 

1-20-24 When I was searching for the next book on my list I came across this document from Thomas Aquinas College that had the math readings for the first semester of junior year: https://www.thomasaquinas.edu/sites/default/files/media/file/junior-math-readings-vol1.pdf It was great! It had explanations and excerpts (so I didn't have to read the full books!). Alas, there doesn't seem to be a similar document available online for the second semester readings.

Anyway, I read an excerpt from Intro to the Analytic Art by Francois Viete. Viete was a French mathematician whose work on new algebra helped introduce the world to modern algebra in 1591. I could actually understand parts of this one and it was cool to see how algebra was developed!

I also read excerpts from Viete's Standard Enumeration of Geometrical Results and Rene Descartes The Geometry. I didn't understand very much of those!

1-27-24 Quadrature of the Parabola - Archimedes - Archimedes was writing to a fellow mathematician in this document, sending him a geometrical theorem.. Archimedes was attempting to square the segment bounded by a straight line and a section of a right-angled cone (a parabola). 

On the plus side, I am now done with math for this section and can move on to reading other things that I might have a better chance of comprehending.


My thirteen-year-old daughter and I read the following book this month:


 
1-17-24 Project F - Jeanne DuPrau - This is a post-apocalyptic novel set a few hundred years in the future, a time in which all fossil fuels are banned. An inventor wants to build a flying machine and uses black dust (coal) to fuel it. A teenage boy, Keith, gets involved in the project. Overall, this book was meh. It is a pro-environment book that does make you think about our reliance on fossil fuels, but some parts of it didn't make sense like the fact that they had trains (how did they run?). There were also some subplots that seemed to have little to do with the story.
 
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Thursday, February 01, 2024

Preparing for Lent

 Lent is two short weeks away. Here are three books to help you focus on your spiritual life this Lent.


 Turn to the Cross: Daily Prayers for Lent and Holy Week -Josh Noem - This is a Lenten devotional that offers a Scripture passage or quote, a reflection passage, prayers, and reflection question for each day of Lent. It focuses on the Lenten disciplines of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving, and will help deepen your prayer life this Lent. 


Messages of Perseverance for Lent 2024 - Fr. Michael White and Tom Corcoran. This duo has put together a number of these short devotional books for Advent and Lent. It was a bit odd that this one started on the first Sunday of Lent rather than Ash Wednesday. These are very short reflections that, as the title suggests, focus on persevering in prayer and faith even when the road is hard. These are great for a quick spiritual pick-me-up.

Behold Your Mother: Marian Stations of the Cross - Marge Steinhage Fenelon - This book takes a unique approach to the Stations of the Cross. They are told from the first-person perspective of a child watching Mary as she watches her son's suffering and death. The child knows that they have somehow contributed to both Mary and Jesus's suffering and wants to comfort Mary. While written for adults, because of the child's perspective, these could also be used in a family or classroom setting with children. 


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Wednesday, January 03, 2024

#OpenBook for January 2024

 

Happy New Year! Welcome to #OpenBook. I'm joining up with Carolyn Astfalk who hosts an #OpenBook Linkup on CatholicMom.com. Here's what I've been reading this past month. The dates indicate when I finished the books. Thanks for stopping by!

 

12-1-23 The Heart of Christmas - Victoria Magazine - I've been a fan of Victoria Magazine since I was a teenager. This was one of their early books, published in the 1990s, that focused on Christmas. I found it at the library and appreciated both the historical traditions that they shared as well as what now seems historic from the 1990s! One thing I found interesting was that the now defunct Lord and Taylor store in New York used to create intricate windows with miniature scenes for the Christmas season. Primarily, though, I enjoyed looking at the pretty pictures.

12-9-23 Sew Sister: The Untold Story of Jean Wright and NASA's Seamstresses - Elise Matich - This is an inspiring picture book about the women who sewed the white material onto the outside of the space shuttles to protect astronauts from heat and radiation.

12-10-23 The Christmas Quilt - Vanetta Chapman - Once I started reading this one, I realized I had read it before. I still enjoyed it a great deal! It's a story about an Amish woman who is expecting twins and must be hospitalized to give the twins the best chance at being born healthy. Her best friend visits her often to help care for her and work on a quilt for the babies.
12-13-23 When the Lord Speaks to Your Heart: Daily Devotions - Fr. Gaston Courtois - Fr. Courtois was a French priest who died in 1970. He kept notebooks in which he wrote down how he felt the Lord was speaking to him, writing as if the Lord himself was speaking. In this new book, excerpts from his writings are combined with Scripture and reflection questions to create a daily devotional. It is a lovely book that offers much to ponder. If you are looking for a daily devotional for 2024, I recommend it.

12-13-23 Murder at Penwood Manor - The Harwood Mysteries, Book 5 - Antony Kolenc - The Harwood Mysteries continue with this excellent installment set against the backdrop of the Crusades. Xan, Lucy, and Christina are all back in this new adventure which explores the sin of envy and touches on the lingering consequences of trauma. This award-winning series is great for middle-grade and up (I enjoy it as an adult) and will keep readers turning pages, but I definitely recommend starting the series at the beginning. While Kolenc does provide some backstory, it is good to have the foundation of having read the other books. 

12-15-23 Love Him Ever More: A 9-Day Personal Retreat with the Sacred Heart of Jesus - Fr. Joe Laramie, SJ - This book designed to help you open your heart to unite with the heart of Our Lord. It is a follow-up to Fr. Laramie’s previous book, Abide in the Heart of Christ (which was excellent), but you don’t need to have read that one to benefit from this book. This at-home retreat can be done over nine days or nine weeks, alone or with a group. Each “day” begins with a spiritual quote, an essay that pulls from the author’s life or the lives of others, a contemplative prayer rooted in Ignatian spirituality, questions for personal reflection or journalling, and a short prayer.


12-17-23 The Christmas Doll - Elvira Woodruff - This story about two orphans in London at Christmas long ago reminded me of a Charles Dickens' tale or The Little Matchgirl (except with a happier ending). It is a touching story about a two sisters trying to survive on the streets of London and the youngest one's longing for a doll or her own.

12-17-23 Image and Word: Art and Art History at Smith College - Assorted Contributors - I recently visited the Smith College Art Museum in nearby Northampton, Massachusetts. This book combined three of my favorite things: art, history, and colleges. It was written for the opening of Smith College's new art museum in 2003 and discusses the history of art education at the college. I found it fascinating! 

12-19-23 A Paper Snowflake Christmas - Maddie Evans - This was a perfect quick Christmas read. It features a second-chance romance and a young child who is in need of some Christmas healing and magic.

 

12-21-23 A St. Nicholas Eve Carol - CatholicTeenBook.com writers - The CatholicTeenBook.com writers are an impressive group of talented writers! Each Christmas that combine their talents to write a short story/novella. Ebby's been paired with Bear, a kid with Down's Syndrome, for the St. Nicholas Eve Confirmation retreat. One minute she's scheming how to ditch Bear and the next she and her friend Pastelle are transported into a twisted version of Dickens' A Christmas Carol. This was an excellent short  Christmas story!



12-24-23 Amish Christmas Twins - Shelley Shepard Gray, Rachel J. Good, and Loree Lough - This was a collection of three novellas. "The Christmas Not Wish" by Gray was about an Amish couple adopting a sibling pair of foster children. "New Beginnings" by Good featured a second chance at love and parenthood. I enjoyed both of those. I just couldn't get into the third one, but that's fine. Two out of three isn't bad!

12-28-23 Christmas Blessings - Katherine Spencer - This was my last Christmas story for the season. It featured a woman caring for and trying to make peace with her mother before she dies and an adopted son struggling to prove to his father that his dream is worth pursuing. It included a bit of romance as well. It was an enjoyable story.

12-31-23 Where Grace Appears - Heidi Chiavaroli - I wrapped up my year with this Little Women inspired novel that I absolutely loved. The Martin family has long had an obsession with Little Women, even naming their children after the March girls (plus a boy - Bronson). Jo returns home from graduate school unexpectedly pregnant and decides to help her mother fulfill her long-standing dream of opening a literary-themed bed and breakfast. This pro-life inspirational fiction is the first book in a series and I am looking forward to reading the other installments. 


1-1-24 Cheap Old Houses - Elizabeth and Ethan Finkelstein - I read this one mostly to look at the pictures of old houses that have been lovingly brought back to life. 


1-1-24 A Different Way to Learn: Neurodiversity and Self-Directed Education - Naomi Fisher - This was a book about unschooling neurodiverse children, but it also featured some helpful advice on parenting children with anxiety. I recommend it to anyone struggling with parenting/educating their neurodiverse child. You may not want to take all the advice in the book, but it offers a different way of approaching the challenges inherent with parenting children who think differently than the "norm."


 

And a bonus book:

The Charter Class - Anne Faye - This is one I had the pleasure of working on. It tells the story of the founding of The College of Our Lady of the Elms in Chicopee, Massachusetts, in 1928 and the first class of young women that attended. If you enjoy historical women's fiction, you might enjoy this tale.

 

Since spring of 2019, I have been making my way through the Great Books Curriculum of Thomas Aquinas College (I'm currently working on the readings for junior year). 

Two New Sciences - Galileo - I skimmed this book. Both the math and science were far beyond my intellectual capabilities. It was published in 1638 when Galileo was seventy-four years old. It was his last work. He was a professor of mathematics in Padua. In this work, he focused on the problems of motion and mechanics. It is written in the form of a dialogue which reminded me of reading Plato except that this book has a lot more proofs. It is based heavily on Euclid (which I didn't understand much of when I attempted his geometry) and Aristotle. Galileo was trying to show how math is useful for understanding physics.

My thirteen-year-old daughter and I read the following book this month:

 
12-25-23 Falling Out of Time - Margaret Peterson Haddix - This is the sequel to Running Out of Time that my daughter and I read earlier this year. It is unusual to have a sequel written over twenty-five years later than the original book, but the author did a great job. This time, it features Zola, a relative of Jessie Keyser (the main character in the original book), who is living in a "perfect" society set in 2193, but all is not what it seems. It offers a lot to think about concerning the role of technology in our lives.


 
 
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Thursday, December 21, 2023

"The Life and Lessons of St. Zelie Martin" is Free on Kindle through Christmas

In honor of St. Zelie Martin's birthday on December 23rd, The Life and Lessons of St. Zelie Martin is free on Kindle today through Christmas. Please download! Merry Christmas!


The Little Rose That Could

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