Sunday, January 08, 2012

Time to Simplify . . . Again!

Two years ago during Lent, I embarked on a forty bags in forty days project. The, which came from Faith and Family, was to rid one’s house of forty bags of excess material goods – ideally through giving items away, although some items definitely deserve a place in the trash. I’ve decided it’s time to do it again. No, it isn’t Lent and I most likely won’t be able to accomplish my goal in forty days this time, but I desperately need to get rid of things.

While some people seem to be able to maintain well-ordered houses all the time, mine seems to attract clutter the way refrigerators attract magnets (did I mention that I have too many of those as well?). Some of it, I have little control over. After all, I don’t live alone and I need to respect my husband’s and children’s needs and desires as well. I can encourage them to live more simply and to give away what they no longer need, but no matter how much I might want to, I cannot simply bag up all their possessions and bring them to the local thrift shop. Part of loving other people is making the sacrifice of living with their “stuff.”

Still, I can set a good example and reduce what is within my power to do so. Right now, the sheer amount of stuff is weighing me down. Mary Ann Otto writes of a similar problem in “Boxing Day,” featured in the January 2012 issue of U.S. Catholic:

We tend to store things long after they have outlived their usefulness. I am not sure why; perhaps we document our life with them. Maybe letting go of them reminds us of our own mortality, with the realization that we will not be taking a U-Haul with us into the next life.

Jesus warns us against storing up treasures on earth. There is a reason: I find the more I keep unnecessary items, the more difficult it is to be at peace and in solidarity with Christ’s teachings. I am often distracted by clutter, and there is little doubt others could benefit from my surplus possessions.

There is obviously nothing wrong with owning things. We all need some items – things that are necessary for life, as well as things that are simply beautiful and bring us pleasure, and those items which have a strong emotional value. Yet, most of us own many things that don’t fit into any of those categories, items that we don’t use and which could be doing someone else some good. Those are the items I’m seeking to rid my life of.

I want to live a generous life. This is one way to do that, a simple way to share what I have been blessed with. I have never regretted giving something away. I have found that generosity is always rewarded. If I am generous with others, I trust that when the time comes that I need something, others will be generous with me. I have definitely found that to be the case.

I know I will never completely get rid of all the extraneous items in my life. No doubt, a couple years from now, I will once again desperately need to do a major decluttering. It is one of those on-going battles. Letting go of things is not always easy, however, it is necessary, for both my mental and spiritual health. Let the bagging begin!


Denise said...

I try to stop by every few days and always enjoy your posts even though I don't get around to commenting on each one. This one really resonated with me, though. I couldn't agree more! Owning stuff takes energy - more than just the effort it takes to keep it clean, maintained, etc., but a spiritual energy as well. I've recently been cleaning out our storage closets with the same feelings in my heart that you describe, and have been frank with my husband that I plan on divesting ourselves of a LOT of stuff when the kids move out. I also love to look at house plans of smaller, less stuffable homes. :)

I am not quite the hoarder that my mom is (a child of the Great Depression and poverty, so I can't blame her internal need to hang on to anything that *might* one day be useful), but I do fall pray far too often to my own, "I could see using this again." So far, I've managed to limit it to things that would genuinely be hard and/or expensive to replace should we, say, have another baby or I have to return to work outside the home.

May God bless your own "cleansing" project!

Patrice Fagnant-MacArthur said...

Thank you, Denise! Good luck with your project as well :)

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